I have the Blockbuster movie by mail thingy because going to the movies feels like getting mugged.
I just saw Crash, the good one, with Sandra Bullock, Don Cheadle, and Matt Dillon. If you can f---ing handle the language (and a couple sex spots), then you have got a good movie to wrestle with. It is everything White Man's Burden and Falling Down wish that they could have been, but didn't have the political or sociological guts to be.
You get a raw feel for the racial tension brewing inside people. Not White people or Black people, or Persian people, but people.
I watched the movie being aware of how people touched each other. Whoa! Try watching with that in mind.