All you have to do to kill a marriage is leave it alone. No scandals or betrayals are necessary. Just put it on the back burner and let it sit. Just get too invovled with the kids, allow your hobby to fill up your free time, watch a lot of TV - you know, nothing wrong or sinful. That's all you gotta do. No one needs to be the bad guy (girl) here, just don't water it and that sucker will die.
A farmer told me once that all it takes to ruin a crop to the point of total loss is 6 dry weeks.
How's your marriage?
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From the other side...for those who are married...make it work! Divorce is h...ard on everybody involved. It cuts deeper than I ever imagined. I wouldn't wish it on my worst enemy (if I had one).
good point. i heard recently you are eithr moving fwd or bkwd in marriage. no middle ground.....
welll now you have gone and got a little personal haven't you??/
But it is true, it takes work to make any relationship flourish.
We have Lynn and Jerry Jones at church this week -- Oh my goodness, how great are they?! Our marriage wasn't bad, but it's only getting better now!
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